Most of us that are truly psycho about bjj or grappling probably already know most of the cool quotes that get passed around like mini-campfire stories. Life has a way of kicking us when we’re down. And just when we think we can’t fall any lower, we get kicked again, it’s important to remember that setbacks, failures, and tragedies – however painful they may be – are a part of life. True strength is not about how much you can bench, squat or curl. It is not a measure of your chest and biceps. Strength is about what you can face and overcome.